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My guess is that armpit hair falls along the same lines: To answer this question, you need to get someone else to run the experiment while you observe whether no one cares or people keep giving her sidelong looks. I definitely wear sleeveless tops in the office during the summer time and work in a very informal office, Single ladies wants casual sex Fergus Falls I do always throw on a cardigan if I go to a meeting.
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I would never have thought of it this way, but I think you make excellent points. I encountered some Vermonters who were inclined to let leg hair grow half the year, but found it really uncomfortable under long underwear and so shaved their legs only in winter.
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I used to have a highly fashionable male roommate, and he shaved his legs to make wearing skinny jeans more comfortable. Whinged, your roommate wanted to borrow your razor?! And asked more than once, even?!
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It feels a bit… punitive. The gendered allowance to expose those areas exists because women shave those areas typically. Haha, agreed, the whole thing, frankly, makes no sense. Different standards for work and private lives.
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I never did so but I still do wear short sleeves and whatnot to work. I suppose I was just musing that in my particular experience, my arm hair has been given very few second Singlee whereas my leg hair has garnered much more negative attention and why that might be.
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Oh, that is a good point to consider. I think leg hair tends to appear or at se darken, typically, around puberty as well again, going off my experience only. I think you might be onto something there. I once lived in a Central American Native American town, and nobody from that tribe had arm or leg hair.
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And I think you dislike body hair because USA society has conditioned you to or western society-whatever. In Europe, women not shaving their ladiea, armpits, and legs is common and the men have no complaints.
I think not shaving used to be more common. When I went to the schwimmbad during the Fwrgus and 80s living in two different areas of Germany I could immediately spot the Americans Single ladies wants casual sex Fergus Falls of lack of arm pit hair.
The same was true in Italy during the 80s. My mother got shamed for body hair in the 70s. This was in Germany. Plus I am super pale with darkish hair. I hardly ever see hairy legs or armpits… and I use public transport daily!! At their core, these things make no actual sense, but are completely based on sexist stereotypes and double standards.
Most of us were conditioned to think this way. This letter reminded me of my late sister, who did not shave her armpits or legs or anything. However, she lived in the bay area and was in Singel arts, so easier to get away with. He found it less amusing but oh well. I have my daughters shave their underarms for that reason: Hair exists to protect the sensitive areas of our bodies.
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All you need to do is wear deodorant. Like swaet noticeably dripping off my forehead sweaty.
I bought the strongest drugstore antiperspirant I could find Secret and the problem stopped immediately, and has not recurred since. Whereas in the more casual environment of the University where I work, male colleagues do wear shorts in the summer, without comment.
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I think my reaction comes down to deodorant.
How do you apply it to unshaved armpits? I know most guys must do this habitually, but how does that work…? My knee-jerk reaction to armpit hair is to associate it with sweat and clumped deodorant.
I use dry spray deodorant.
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It does not clump or show up in hair at all, and it is easy to apply and distribute. P Spray, liquid deo roller and such….
I reckon this is why the spray was invented. Unshaved lady pits here and am a long-time user of the deodorant crystal.
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Lady Speed Stick Plus: And I think my sweat is a bit less smelly using it. Takes about 2 weeks for your body to adjust, by which time you will know if it is working for you or not, but ya, much better. As I said in a comment up thread, especially when sleeveless, Single ladies wants casual sex Fergus Falls find having armpit hair drier than bare. It does reach the skin through the hair. You put it on the armpit hair.